Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Tied up Tuesday


Well it is one of my favorite days of the week. Tied up Tuesday. And since this is going to be a regular weekly theme, I would like to start off easy....what size color or type of rope is your favorite. How tight or loose.

I like heavier gage solid braid poly for my aesthetic rope work. Dark colors for light skin and light colors for darker skin.

If I am going for a torture tie or something that requires a certain type of mark well then we go for a smaller gage rope. Color is of little import here as it is the effect that is far more important.

Tight or tighter. For a general tie I like the larger gage and not to snug, but just enough to compress the skin 1/2 as much as a pain or securing tie. I also find, and lusciously so, that the tight tie is most often where a sub goes off into la la land. They go away to subspace not to return any time soon.

So share with me....what are your favorite ropes colors and snugness of ties.

Masochistic Monday

The votes are in and Mondays from now on will be Masochistic Mondays.

So we will delve into masochism.

1 : a sexual perversion characterized by pleasure in being subjected to pain or humiliation especially by a love object — compare sadism 2 : pleasure in being abused or dominated : a taste for suffering

So I am not a masochist, but I know several who are. The question I have today is what part of masochism is it that you like. The Pain or the humilliation or the abuse or being dominated or suffering.

As for me, I like to inflict mostly Domination and suffering. Most everything I do is more mental. Teasing, torturing, and (I know I should not go here but...) ticking.

The only pain I really like to inflict is the pain of a tight bondage or of a really good spanking/flogging.

Friday, December 12, 2008

Long Absence


I know I know I have been gone from here for over a month. I have just been over worked and well now under appriciated. I am joining the ranks of the millions...I get laid off on January 1st...yummy.
Well at least I will have time to get caught up here. .....