Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Masochistic Monday

The votes are in and Mondays from now on will be Masochistic Mondays.

So we will delve into masochism.

1 : a sexual perversion characterized by pleasure in being subjected to pain or humiliation especially by a love object — compare sadism 2 : pleasure in being abused or dominated : a taste for suffering

So I am not a masochist, but I know several who are. The question I have today is what part of masochism is it that you like. The Pain or the humilliation or the abuse or being dominated or suffering.

As for me, I like to inflict mostly Domination and suffering. Most everything I do is more mental. Teasing, torturing, and (I know I should not go here but...) ticking.

The only pain I really like to inflict is the pain of a tight bondage or of a really good spanking/flogging.

2 comments:

Roxy said...
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Roxy said...

Where to begin?

First, and foremost, i like pain. i can take a lot and i like a lot. It pushes me back to the parts of me that aren't human, i see and feel in the moment, and get high on endorphins and adrenaline.

i also love the interplay with a Dom/me, the playful brattiness and then the requisite punishment. i love that someone enjoys my suffering and is witness to it, that we are lost together. i enjoy being heard, being watched, but i'm rarely conscious of it in the moment, because, if it's done well, then there is only

pain

and

now

But afterwards i want to be stroked and petted and held while i'm told "good girl." And then, with a twinkle in my eye, i'll pinch Him or laugh at the wrong moment and W/we'll be right back to it...